They say some
friends are more than a brother, I don’t know how, but maybe because they stand
with you through thick and thin.
I know not many
are like me. I can possibly count the number of friends I have. One, maybe
three at most. Hehe, please don’t be amused or judgmental because I know
amongst you, there are some with maybe even none. So am doing well *hides*.
Well, it’s not
that I don’t appreciate friendships, on the contrary. I love friends, reason
being you have someone to give you a shoulder to lean on when you need it and
also someone to celebrate your success with. It’s very important for a human
being to share their feelings else you might suffocate.
Anyhow, main
reason why I’ve chosen to have such few friends is because majority are
seasonal, not real, such backstabbers and social climbers! I wonder what
happened to genuine friendships like the ones I see my parents enjoy. They have
a very close bond with their friends and they invest in each other. Today
things have changed. Either someone will hang in there because they need a favor
from you, your parents, your boyfie…list is endless. God forbid!
I can’t deal with
the thought of having someone in my life who doesn’t give a hoot about me. Am
glad am able to detect you from a far and belch you instantaneously. Though
there are some who manage to sneak in undetected like rainwater through the
windowpane.
It’s soo wrong for
anyone to think that they can live on someone’s hustle. Go out there and get
your own, let’s put that together and come up with a gigantic idea to help our
generations to follow.
If you are
sociable like me, means you can make as many friends in a short span. Depends
with how much crap you can take in. It means therefore that you are able to
keep many of them. Please beware of the conniving kind that just sulk and make
you their source of solace or their cash cow whereas when you need them they
are nowhere to be seen. You don’t wanna carry someone’s burden and still carry
your own.
The very good
friends do not need to work so hard to prove their loyalty, you blend in soo easily.
Keep those ones and bless them every day. They aren’t easy to find.
#chroniclespieceofadvice: Beware of
ratchety friends and thank God for the genuine ones you have.
Something!
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